Sure, the sex is hot and passionate and blah, blah, blah, but is it really taking you to new heights? No, it's not — but there's a way to make it work. When you two first started dating you'd do it any time — and anywhere. The bathroom at his parents'? Coat-check at the bar? Your dining room table? Been there, done that. And now, well, even though the sex is satisfying and fun, you've lost that extraterrestrial spark.
Slow, lazy sex on a rainy Sunday morning or tried-and-true sex positions that get the job done are necessary for a satisfying sex life, IMHO. Where instead running through your usual angles, you want something a little… different? Sure, the sex positions you always use might be a little easer—at least, easier than contorting yourself into a position that looks like it belongs in an advanced-level yoga class and trying to sync up with your partner so you can both get pleasure during the complicated deed. I felt like I was the most boring sexual being on the face of the earth—at least compared to these wild characters. So, instead of having to come up with spontaneous, sex-master-level sex positions—or literally just memorize a bunch of out-of-the-box ideas— yourself , we came up with a list of eight crazy sex positions that are percent worth the attempt. We also got some pointers from pro sexologist Emily Morse, Ph.
2. X Marks The Spot
With these scorching bedroom tricks and sex positions, you may have to put the fire department on speed dial. During foreplay , wrap your fingers around his penis and lightly press against your labia. Rub yourself up and down it to get you both hot—and to prolong the anticipation. Intensify his orgasm by placing two fingers an inch behind his balls and feeling for a dent the perineum, a big pleasure trigger. For the last 30 seconds before he comes, massage the spot in a circular motion. Tie two or three knots in a nylon stocking, and gently wrap it don't tie it around the base of his penis so it's snug but still has some give. The compression makes him even more sensitive, and the knots stimulate your clitoris as you move in girl-on-top.
Bring on the next position challenge, please! Instead of resorting to your go-to moves tonight, whip out one of these crazy sex positions for an orgasm you've never, ever, experienced before. Note: While many of these directions reference "you" as the receiving partner, these positions can be assumed by just about anyone. How to: Lie back and have your partner sit facing you, with your legs crossing over each other to form an X. Why it's great: This is the only "ex" you'll be glad to run into. Also known as the "Crisscross," this crazy sex position requires slow, intimate movement. And you can help your partner go deeper by holding their hands as he thrusts. How to: Lie on your back with your legs raised and folded over so that your ankles are on either side of your head, while your partner squats and penetrates you.